Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Happy Family Is Not a Dream

Happy Family
Happy Family Is Not a Dream
Happy family is the family situation in which the members are happy, mutual love and respect each other and can actualize themselves so that the development of the family members are developing normally and optimally.

Almost everyone has a desire to have a happy family, there are some who may have it and many are only able to dream about. Actually, happy family is the right of everyone, everyone can afford to have even a little change or a happy family businesses because we can get a happy family is not an impossible dream to come true. So let's act, to try and work out how anything are able to do so rest assured you definitely get a happy family.

Sometimes some of us forget the importance and pleasure to have a happy family so intentionally or not have made a mistake that can ruin a family owned happiness. In this particular good chance for those who want to realize the dream of having a happy family, I want to share some tips that I think is quite powerful, do not believe?. please you apply yourself and prove its worth.

Tips to build a happy family
  1. Create Love Between Husband and Wife. Family and marriage without love and affection, then a family life will not be able to live a quiet, comfortable and safe. Two things are necessary is an important pillar for the presence of these two pillars of family life will reach the point of happiness, mutual respect, mutual trust and help each other in goodness. Conversely without affection, a marriage bond will be destroyed and away from happiness.

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  2. Describe Rights and Obligations of Married With Good. Many households are becoming messy divorce even happen because each only demand rights without understanding and want to run what became his duty. For that which needs to be underlined is that it is important to maintain a balance between the two, namely the rights and obligations as a wife well and also otherwise exercise rights obligations as a husband well too.

  3. Respect the interaction of father, mother, and child. This is done through words, actions, and attitudes embedded in family members.

  4. Understand your family member. Understand that the people we love may have a different picture in their minds about how to deal with an event. So in the family did not brag about the small, trying to shape the perception and cooperate.

  5. Expand Time together. explore creativity and take the benefits for the family, plan a special time, the contents of special moments, change the routine way to involve the whole family, enjoy with your hobby, and involve themselves with activities involving children in mainstream.

  6. Keep trying. Do not give up keep trying new approaches to forge deeper relationships with children, spouses, and adjust to your interests, age and circumstances.

  7. Reduce patronize, multiply hear. Try to respect the viewpoints and dreams with each other.

  8. Demonstrate exemplary to children. Parents need to be a 'role-model' to children because they are the ones who often shared with children. Said words were polite and gentle with your spouse and children also need to be applied within.

    Avoid negative attitudes such as a quarrel between husband and wife in front of children. When children see their parents harmony, they would make a good attitude as an example and role model to interact among themselves. The nature of children to interact and communicate with the environment reflects our upbringing as parents.

  9. Change your mindset. Changing times affect the mindset of some people who think that money is everything. So everything is busy working to earn money, money, money. This mindset is the wrong mindset, because many children are born to a wealthy family, deviant, and do not have a purpose in life so as to fall into promiscuity and ruin their future. If you including people who have a mindset like this it is not too late to change it, because The real happiness can not be measured by money.

    Just compare your family with low-income families around you, they can laugh without a load, eating together with their children, and rarely quarrel. Based on the survey I did a happy family owned more modest family even relatively poor families. while more families wallowing in wealth leads to a broken home because of lack of affection.

  10. Devoting Love And Spending time with Children. A family where the husband and wife are busy working often forget the presence of their children. when children are in need of love and attention from their parents. Surely the kids will be happy if it were you as parents show affection and to spend time with them.

  11.  Always try to Maintain the health of the family.
To get the most powerful in the running tips above to build a happy family. Important that you pay attention to the factors that influence harmonious or happy family below:


Factors that affect the family happy

  1. Attention. That put the heart of all members of the family as the primary basis of good relationships between family members. Good on family development with attention to events in the family, and look for causal issues, there are also changes on each of its members.

  2. Knowledge. The necessity to increase knowledge ceaselessly to expand the horizons are needed to live a family life. It is necessary to know the members of his family, which is any change in the family, and changes in family members, so that the incidence of the less desirable in the future can be anticipated.

  3. The introduction of all family members. This means the introduction of self and self-recognition are important to foster notions.

  4. When the self-introduction has been reached it will be easier to highlight all occurrences or events that occur in the family. The problem would be easily overcome, because of the background more quickly revealed and resolved, the notion that developed as a result of earlier knowledge would reduce the crisis in the family.

  5. Acceptance. The next step in understanding the attitude is acceptance, which means with all the weaknesses, shortcomings and strengths, he should still get a place in the family. This attitude will result in a positive atmosphere and warmth that underlies the development of the proliferation potential and interests of family members.

  6. Increased efforts. After receiving their families what it is necessary to improve the business. Namely to develop every aspect of their families optimally, it is tailored to each individual's ability, the goal is to create changes and eliminate the state of boredom.

  7. Adjustments should have to follow any kind of physical changes in parent and child. Family harmony or a happy family is one where the life has shown the following factors:
  • Factors welfare of the soul. Namely the low frequency contention and strife at home, love one another, need each other, help each other between the members of the family, satisfaction in work and the respective subject and so forth which are indicators of the existence of the soul happy, prosperous and healthy.

  • Physical health factors. Often family members are sick, a lot of expenses for medicine, for medicine, and hospitals will certainly reduce and impede the achievement of a happy family.

  • Factors balance between spending and family income. The ability of the family in his plan to balance income and expenditure in the family
How big is your understanding of the factors that affect the family happy up to determine how large a percentage of success tips I gave. By applying these tips, household filled with compassion, love, full of sincerity and patience, can be formed by itself without you even knowing. for a happy family is not because of the wealth of material possessions, but rich with open heart.

Good luck. See you again....

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